tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post128811011887352378..comments2023-11-05T02:28:08.378-08:00Comments on SINGLE Mom in a complicated world: the moment you know...Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17680221201312100448noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post-60556637683176701662010-02-08T03:49:00.898-08:002010-02-08T03:49:00.898-08:00I made a vow to myself that I would not ever again...I made a vow to myself that I would not ever again be in a relationship where I was giving more and caring more than the other person.secret agent womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03763879283931347382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post-13533132053834895312010-02-07T20:02:19.777-08:002010-02-07T20:02:19.777-08:00that is such a good point Michelle!that is such a good point Michelle!Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17680221201312100448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post-28516352218363557142010-02-07T16:08:37.395-08:002010-02-07T16:08:37.395-08:00WOW! I can relate...I ignored all the signs with m...WOW! I can relate...I ignored all the signs with my first husband as well. After the divorce I kept thinking, "How can I teach my daughter NOT to ignore the signs like I did." I have come to the conclusion that everyone puts too much emphasis on the feeling of love. I have loved many boys, but that doesnt mean that they were suitable for marriage. A lot of people get married because they are "in love" this is the wrong reason to get married. Of course you should be in love with the person but the descion of marrigae should be a practical one too.Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07137184010706286214noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post-87619126246927216022010-02-07T14:29:37.102-08:002010-02-07T14:29:37.102-08:00run Steve run...;)run Steve run...;)Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17680221201312100448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post-41853993584566594092010-02-07T12:58:24.357-08:002010-02-07T12:58:24.357-08:00Yeah Debbie I saw several things, I was young naiv...Yeah Debbie I saw several things, I was young naive and was determined to make it work when in reality I should have left her years before. <br /><br />I was only joking earlier by the way! Just keeping all you man haters in check! hehe <br />*runs away quickly*Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00664242984148886143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post-29426954382730786712010-02-07T06:31:32.607-08:002010-02-07T06:31:32.607-08:00Liss-the irony is sometimes they spin webs of dece...Liss-the irony is sometimes they spin webs of deceit and sometimes they speak truth that we do not hear! I experienced both..the first in my first marriage was truth I did not face and in my second BRIEF marriage deception that I finally ran from! As you say when the truth sinks in either way we can finally deal with the hand we have been dealt!Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17680221201312100448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post-66041465982985247782010-02-07T05:06:08.849-08:002010-02-07T05:06:08.849-08:00Ah yes very true, I think it's just because we...Ah yes very true, I think it's just because we just want to believe that the person we love. We want to believe they wouldn't do anything to hurt us. That's why we are more willing to believe the web of deception people spin sometimes. It just takes us a little while for the truth to sink in and for us to get the strength to approach the problem, male or female.Memories Of Minehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13372908229050942550noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post-40374208261670871052010-02-06T20:42:42.058-08:002010-02-06T20:42:42.058-08:00Yes. To face the truth, to accept it, and more im...Yes. To face the truth, to accept it, and more importantly, to decide to do what we know is best but will hurt the most, unfortunately that is a combination that most of us cannot take all at once. We deal with it now, or we deal with it later.Amirahttp://memoirsofasinglemom.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post-34738999281889425662010-02-06T14:12:26.768-08:002010-02-06T14:12:26.768-08:00HEY!!! Steve- did I say it was a man thing???? BUT...HEY!!! Steve- did I say it was a man thing???? BUT I bet you saw something? a moment when you knew but did not want to?? trust me- I think all humans fall!! male and female! and some are just toxic together!! as for the asterix thing...I know I am lame!! can't help it!!!:)Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17680221201312100448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post-54238454565319077492010-02-06T14:03:05.436-08:002010-02-06T14:03:05.436-08:00Hey sorry to spoil your party Debbie! My ex wife c...Hey sorry to spoil your party Debbie! My ex wife cheated on ME! I guess it isn't just a man thing eh? You females are evil too :) <br /><br />PS you are so cute the way that you use an asterix instead of saying sex! heheStevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00664242984148886143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post-52574084668902927392010-02-06T09:55:47.383-08:002010-02-06T09:55:47.383-08:00she writes- seems so!!! ;)she writes- seems so!!! ;)Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17680221201312100448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post-53167736375638767742010-02-06T09:12:05.388-08:002010-02-06T09:12:05.388-08:00Sometimes men do say what they mean, huh!Sometimes men do say what they mean, huh!Unspokenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16065870952905767595noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post-34740854960404378142010-02-06T09:10:04.040-08:002010-02-06T09:10:04.040-08:00C- glad you came to visit!!
mamma has spoken- I th...C- glad you came to visit!!<br />mamma has spoken- I think its ignored because whats the alternative?? often facing it means its over...so we hang on hoping it will just right itself! it rarely does...:)(Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17680221201312100448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post-5815837292864139052010-02-06T09:03:12.445-08:002010-02-06T09:03:12.445-08:00Funny how we ignore the signs in hopes that things...Funny how we ignore the signs in hopes that things will be great. But how in the world do you ignore the fact that he won't say the vow to be faithful???mamahasspokenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18049292242708654609noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post-34722433808759261132010-02-06T09:02:52.964-08:002010-02-06T09:02:52.964-08:00Wow. That same happened to me. My husband wanted t...Wow. That same happened to me. My husband wanted to leave out the part about forsaking all others, and he said it just seemed silly to base your commitment on that. He said he thought it was more romantic and committed to be together and love one another, but not to "own" one another... something like that. Anyway, anyone who reads my blog knows what happened from there. Six months later, he was already cheating. So, yes, you sometimes see it coming as clear as anything, and (in my case) you ignore it because you don't *want* to see it.....Chttp://runningleap.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com