tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post5205930005258637750..comments2023-11-05T02:28:08.378-08:00Comments on SINGLE Mom in a complicated world: a learning curveDebbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17680221201312100448noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post-40687151713468013332010-12-08T19:27:06.731-08:002010-12-08T19:27:06.731-08:00Thanks all for the comments!
Crystal Lynn, you ar...Thanks all for the comments! <br />Crystal Lynn, you are right! But, I do not think you should run just because something gets uncomfortable! I Think you should run if you know something does not feel right!...I am not sure that being alone is easier...but I have come to accept it! I Can also see that in time it might feel easier..and like you maybe I will be saying the same thing one day! LOL!!Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17680221201312100448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post-48920334075231331722010-12-08T18:24:28.776-08:002010-12-08T18:24:28.776-08:00Being "alone" is easier, but is that rea...Being "alone" is easier, but is that really what makes you happy? Being in a relationship is work sometimes, but if you run everything things get a little uncomfy.. well, thats just not productive!<br />Of course I speak from experience. I have been single for many years because it is easy!Crafty and Classyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05770485574028832878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post-12404840511470572512010-12-08T09:24:22.470-08:002010-12-08T09:24:22.470-08:00I think the saying is that you will kiss a lot of ...I think the saying is that you will kiss a lot of frogs before you find the prince. I am in no way calling him that, but just refering to the fact that dating is a different experience everytime with every person. You learn things about you in the process that help when the right one comes along. Be honest to you always!!!!<br />I am proud of you both for getting out there and going for it. You both learned.Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06587186690785139860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post-69637527488244531222010-12-08T06:18:02.218-08:002010-12-08T06:18:02.218-08:00Perhaps he was a gentle testing ground and lesson ...Perhaps he was a gentle testing ground and lesson to help you find your way towards a truer happiness. It might feel hollow now, but perhaps there will be some insight for this time later.Katherine Krigehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00737873330498032718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post-75646620169690962142010-12-08T04:46:02.141-08:002010-12-08T04:46:02.141-08:00Agree, move on learn from those you date, continue...Agree, move on learn from those you date, continue to date and have fun!mamahasspokenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18049292242708654609noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post-75863137255396924392010-12-08T03:48:58.263-08:002010-12-08T03:48:58.263-08:00Yes! You move on...head held high...filled with c...Yes! You move on...head held high...filled with confidence and liking yourself!! The next relationship will be even better and who knows where it will lead. Ahhh! the excitement!!<br />Hugs<br />SueAnnSueannhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05299288406218968621noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post-36098170623547673582010-12-07T20:21:58.852-08:002010-12-07T20:21:58.852-08:00What there has to be..along with the guy being a s...What there has to be..along with the guy being a super nice person to all the world..is a connection..a soul connection...when you feel that you let go of all the cautions and attachment to correct behavior and what's right and wrong...and in my opinion it often comes in an instant and once you are together, you look back as though you loved each other even before you met. But don't run with just the connection..like I said..he should be a wonderful human too :)<br /><br />BreezeCarolyn R. Parsonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14529999558075983828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8014880043626797980.post-73247488977124345052010-12-07T19:48:10.125-08:002010-12-07T19:48:10.125-08:00I think being alone is wonderful. I think it's...I think being alone is wonderful. I think it's IMPERATIVE that you're happy alone before you can be happy with someone else. I think you can want someone to share your life but you shouldn't need someone. <br /><br />And I think you shouldn't be afraid to put yourself out there if it feels right. Just seek out someone with healthy, reasonable boundaries -- someone willing to respect YOUR boundaries. Those men are out there... they ARE (damn it! ;). <br /><br />Take your time, my friend... be happy... you're wonderful and you deserve the best... and it'll all happen in good time! XODianehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16637670293642285740noreply@blogger.com