Friday, November 12, 2010

single is so-less-complicated then not-so single..

So,
finding my way as
a single woman..
was its own complication!
The loneliness...
The fears....
The wonder 'ifs' and 'whens'...

But, now
I am 'not' as single..
and it seems
it does not get
less complicated!

Instead now
I am trying to understand
the way
this new world
works....

Ex's on both parts
and kids,
whose needs come first!..
work schedules
and responsibilities...
add that to
hurts that are triggered,
and fears that surface unexpectedly!

life is good...
but,
life is not simple!

Simple is as simple does?
maybe-
but some times
life is just more
then you asked for;
less then you expected,
and ultimately
better then imagined!

Complicated...YES!
Worth it? Most definitely!

2 comments:

  1. This is probably why facebook lists one of the options for relationship status as "it's complicated."

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  2. Blending families is one of the toughest things ever. Stay strong and love love love. Bask in the joy. Everyone is more resilient than you think

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