The moment you know..

I was at dinner with a single friend recently..
she has gone through a hard time also..
and we spoke of this feeling we have
of moving forward!
and as we compared notes
I realized
there is a MOMENT!
a moment after divorce
in which you stop focusing backwards
or even on the present
and you begin
to plan
and live!
SOMETHING pushes you
out of the past
and in to the future!
a turning point!
for each the time frame is different..
and the motivation and/or catapulting event
will not look the same...
but for all it is there..
a visible change
a feeling
a new sense of purpose
in which you grasp
that this is the reality..
your reality..
what are YOU going to do about it??
This is the wall you break through..
this is the start of the rest of your life...